We have to make the first move ourselves

We have to make the first move ourselves rather than expecting it to come from the phenomenal world or from other people. If we are meditating at home and we happen to live in the middle of the High Street, we cannot stop the traffic just because we want peace and quiet. But we can stop ourselves, we can accept the noise. The noise also contains silence. We must put ourselves into it and expect nothing from outside, just as Buddha did. And we must accept whatever situation arises.

~ Chogyam Trungpa, Carolyn Rose Gimian

we have to make the first move ourselves
 
"One day I will find the right words, and they will be simple." Jack Kerouac