People get uncomfortable talking or

People get uncomfortable talking or thinking about what they want.
They've learned it's unsafe or shameful for them to even consider what they want.
They've gotten used to being called selfish, stupid, crazy and other epithets by people around them if they come clean about their wishes.

~ Christopher Edgar

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"One day I will find the right words, and they will be simple." Jack Kerouac